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Unfortunately today's men want more wives for one reason only - intimacy and that is very sad because Islam is not that shallow

Such an important video. Will be sharing far and wide

Men are so sneaky! Nowadays they try any way to get the most basic nikkah done or pretend that even angels or Allah is your witness (as per other Islamic lectures!!) it’s horrifying!!! We need to teach each other how to have boundaries and not leave our single sisters alone too much for these “men” to isolate them!!

Literally! I was getting to know a Muslim man and before we even got married it was all about him getting more wives. Constantly reminding me whenever I wasn’t complying to him. He was so easily bored so he was always looking for smallest slip up, even if I moved something in the background while on the phone or asked when our parents are going to meet again - suddenly I was doing too much. Womennnn listen to your god given intuition!!! You weren’t created to nurture toxic man’s egos

There are more women in this world then men. Please promote polygamy, you should be happy if a woman gets a husband by becoming 2nd wife instead of spending whole life alone.

Thank you so much for the wonderful tips. And btw coincidentally I am wearing the same color hijab as you today

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My beautiful sister Masha'Allah!! Well said I'm blessed to came across you on UA-cam and subscribed to your Chanel. Sis maye Allah increase you in knowledge and wisdom and reward you for the everyday beneficial advice you give to enducate us in benefits of knowledge. I appreciate you. Jazak Allahu khayran 🤲🏾🤲🏾💟💖👑✨

As Salaamu Alalikum Wa Rahmatuallahi Wa Barakatu. Thank you Sis for this video.. its welk saix and very formative and something to pounda upon and reflect in terms of being paitcien and wait for Allah's wills for the right spouse to marriage. Self respect and dignity memorial is very important especially in Islam and our imaan. Barak Allhahu Khayran Allaahumma Aaaameen 🤲🏾🤲🏾✨🌴💖💖💟

How do i put boundaries for a person not a knowledging boundaries, especially if narcissism has no cure?

I have question, are daughters that experienced narcissistic mothers, can themselves become narcissists?

Is it possible that just one child can get this narcissistic treatment in a multi - sibling household, especially if there's preference for sons over daughters?

salam, I hope you are doing well and blessed. I wouldlike to know how you film your videos. which camera, microphone and light you are using:) THANK YOU <3

wa'alaikumsalam warohmatullah wabarokatuh sister, thankyou very much

Having sexual desire is normal and this can be let go of with meditation. Muhammad couldn't control his sexual desire and he gave in to those desires. Part of the reason for this was that he did not develop in meditation and did not cultivate wisdom.

Having sexual feelings is normal and can be let go of with meditation. Even Muhammad couldn't control his sexual desire and he gave in to them because he didn't do meditation. Muhammad despite having some good intentions, he was still subject to desire and delusion. There maybe some good teachings in Islam, but there are better religions and spiritual practices out there.

My story is my husband has always been narcissist, and picking in my appearance to make himself look good cause in all other aspects education and status I was superior, but my I made dua and when you asl Allah the impossible it can happen,I see many positive changes in hum,it almost shocks me sometime I took him as a test from Allah.

This video save my dating life thank you 😊

Thank you so much God

Women are a huge participant in these predicaments! Like she mentioned,WHY mary these bums?!! Also either men her family have NO clue and DONT vet these losers! Or she will fight the world to marry him! Or she has crazy expectations like “ I want him to be my father, brother, lover, and of course best friend!!!! Sisters he can barely be a good husband and with Allah’s help a good father, don’t have crazy expectations, Allah gave you ALL these people that have different roles! I strongly disagree with 99% of polygamous marriages! The males can’t handle the women they aren’t mentally capable and yes most of them are NOT financially capable NOR responsible! I always tell my young sons if you want more than one because that is the natural inclination for men, hence one of the reasons Allah enticed men with Hour al ine in jennah, multiple wives and concubines in this dunya! Then you my son have to be a 1% man or high value in deen and dounya! But males today have a lower testosterone level than 50 years ago, are emotionally soft and are LAZY like she mentions, especially in socialistic countries, like Europe and UK! Never marry in secret, never ruin a 1st home to open a second one otherwise divorce is cleaner and more appropriate! And make sure your lifestyle does NOT diminish! Otherwise be of those that ALLAH says to them “ if you are afraid to NOT be just, then only marry one! Allah knows best!

I wanted to marry this guy, but he got engaged to someone else. Can I do Isthikhara now? Or too late?

This sick fucking monster wants to let my girlfriend cheat on me while I get tortured by demons, then tell me “it’s God’s timing and it’s perfect” very wicked to say, it ended up ruining my life, he never showed me proof of a reward, even this is a farce. When this dumb lady said I don’t get to decided when that time is, she’s a gross idiot and I hope God gets tortured for hurting me.

*The woman put a lot of work into the marriage, so she feels betrayed if her husband chooses to get a second wife* By this logic, you should also be against divorce. In fact, most traditional societies, including Muslim ones, view divorce as something bad. Unsurprisingly, such societies also frown upon polygamy. That’s because both polygamy and divorce involve this sense of betrayal, where you are seen to have betrayed your “soulmate”. So, how can you be okay with the idea of divorce and remarriage but be against polygamy, when both involve being with someone other than your soulmate? *Most men only marry a second wife for selfish reasons* Guess what? Most men only marry the first wife for those same selfish reasons. *The women have to support themselves because the husband is poor* First of all, poverty is not a barrier to polygamy (as seen in the case of the Sahaba). If you believe that, then you should also believe that poverty is a barrier to having multiple children. If a man cannot take care of multiple wives because he is poor, then how can he take care of multiple kids? However, most men in the world are poor, and they live with their wives and kids in poverty. Obviously, those who are more able to, should marry more women; however, something tells me that their first wives would not be happy about that. 😅 Second of all, it is a man’s responsibility to take care of his wife. The wife should not have to work. One of the benefits of polygamy is that it allows women a greater choice of men, including those who already married. One of the problems in our society seems to be that good men are discouraged from taking a second wife (mainly because of the jealousy and betrayal the first wife would feel). For this reason, a lot of men who are practicing polygamy are probably less able to do so. Much in the same way that the noble virtue of Jihad has been perverted by the worst of our Ummah, it seems as if the same thing has happened to polygamy. *The man neglects his first wife when he gets the second* In a similar way to how a parent can have multiple children and love them all, a man can have multiple wives and love them all. And just like how a parent does not need the permission of their children to have more children (even though the existing children will be affected by that decision), a man does not need the permission of his wife to take another wife (even though she will be affected by that decision). Obviously, a man should not neglect his first wife when he gets a second, just like how a parent should not neglect their first child when they get a second. However, it is obvious that natural feelings of jealousy can occur (in both women and children) when the love and attention that they used to receive now has to be shared with someone else. *In conclusion* This leads to my main contention with this video. You have not given any valid reasons (beyond jealousy) as to why a woman would be against polygamy (as a concept). Most of your points, while valid for married women experiencing polygamy, do not address why *most* women (including single ones) are against it. Also, men have been promised multiple wives in Jannah. How do you reconcile this with many women’s aversion to polygamy? There are many women who are uncomfortable with what men have been promised in Jannah, even though there will be no injustice there. None of the reasons you have given apply to the situation in Jannah, which many women (especially non-Muslim ones) are uncomfortable with.

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Praise be to Allah. Allaah has enjoined certain things on a man who wants to marry more than one wife, which he must fulfil before he marries a second wife. One of these things is that he should be able treat them both fairly with regard to spending, staying overnight and providing accommodation. If he knows that he is unable to do that or that it is most likely that he cannot do so, it is not permissible for him to marry more than one wife. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice” [al-Nisa’ 4:3] Mujaahid said: do not deliberately try to mistreat any of them, rather adhere to equal treatment with regard to dividing your time and spending, because this is something that a man can do. Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 5/407 Shaykh al-Islam [Ibn Taymiyah] (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: As for fairness with regard to spending and clothing, this is the Sunnah, following the example of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He treated his wives equally with regard to spending just as he did with regard to dividing his time amongst them. Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 32/269 Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: [The Prophet] (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to treat them equally with regard to spending the night with them, providing accommodation and spending on them… but it is not obligatory to treat them equally with regard to that - i.e., love and intercourse - because that is something that a man has no control over. Zaad al-Ma’aad, 1/151 Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar said: If he provides each one of them with sufficient clothing, maintenance and accommodation, it does not matter what he does after that of being more inclined towards one of them or giving gifts to them… Al-Fath, 9/391 This is what Allaah has enjoined upon the one who wants to marry more than one wife. If a man is able to do that, there is nothing wrong with agreeing to marry him. If he is not, then we do not advise marrying him, rather it is not permissible for him to propose marriage in the first place.

Believe me I m mentally ill passing this test

A typical Muslim Woman: She is only Islamic/religious until polygamy is brought up, she agrees with all the Islamic points accept this one A typical Muslim Man: He is not religious but brings this topic up and mentions it that it is a sunnah to marry again, as if it is the only sunnah.

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Thanks a lot sis i needed to hear thus so much from someone, thanks a lot i came across your video

You know, I never see your videos in my feed because the algorithm does what it wants. But I really needed to hear this video today and I’m grateful that I heard it. Alhamdulillah

At last muslim women are also waking up 🎉

This is literally my dad. So toxic, evil and all around disgusting monster to ever exist.

Great Video. Mashah ALLAH

Interesting the thoughts on this subject. IMO, the crux of the matter is being responsible as a man which has entirely nothing, absolutley nothing to do with him having one wife or more than one wife. We've got monogamous marriages where the woman supports the household financially because Allah has blessed her more or a sister aspiring marriage to a brother who is not as financially sustaining as she is, would you tell her selfishly that is a red flag to giveup some of her rights? We are better off taking and relating narrations from the time of the prophet ( peace and blessings be upon him) for guidance and relation in public spaces that uttering bas3d on our desires which can lead or mislead lots of people which we would ultimately be accountable for on the day of qiyyamah. May Allah rectify us and make us see the truth as truth and accept it and falshood as falsehood and distance ourselves from it. Aameen!

I recall a time when I was working 60 plus hours before I was a Muslim. I would go home and cook my own meals and clean etc. A woman at my job brought me a red velvet cake and fed me in front of the other employees 😮. Cheating is wrong but it's easier to have a sidechick that serves you when your wife doesn't. The point is this...we have roles that need to be fulfilled, women should not be acting like a man, and men should refrain from doing roles that women would traditionally do especially if you are providing.

A second wife is taking money from you and your children

Saving your marriage or Allah prefer you save your soul in good way

Never good in narcissistic is only shaytan Jin living , never kind trust me , when gets old he gets worse , Allah do not say you need to live marriage with shaitan or Jin

You do not need to live with narcissistic sister your psychology is wrong as Islam do not say you need to stay in relationship where you not happy and appreciated , please instead support sisters check brothers before getting marry either live for Allah not staying in that relationship

Jazak Allah Khair I really felt like you were speaking directly to me! You are more impactful than you know

Missing your videos tremendously 😢

Masha Allah

I almost threw up..these are rules for an ideal..not a real human being

They say that a religious woman would not object to it. Looks like they've never heard of the story of Fatima rz, *the leader of women in jannah.* Even she did not like her husband taking a second wife during her lifetime and so the prophet sw said, "Fatima is a part of me, whoever hurts her hurts me." It is only after her death that Ali rz took multiple wives.

As salamun alaikum waramotulah wabarakatu, thanks so much for this. This is awesome to hear, I love this peace, also it is amazing to know we share the same name and alhamdulilah the same views, may Allah reward you abundantly. Please how can I send questions I wish to get answers for, personal questions please.

You lost me at "Good listeners". I need to work on that seriously bruh.

Thanks sis